Many women mistakenly think that only men watch port or masturbate. This is, of course, false, a huge number of women masturbate regularly and it’s actually very beneficial for you to masturbate, as if you can get to know your body, learn what feels good and teach yourself how to orgasm on your own, it will be much easier for you to cum with your partner. Keep in mind that each woman’s body is different and what works for one woman won’t necessarily work for another one, but you should always keep exploring and trying new things to make your orgasms even better.
Get ready to masturbate
Just like you don’t usually start having sex without foreplay, you shouldn’t start masturbating without properly getting yourself in the mood. First, make sure that you can feel relaxed and stress-free, find a private location where nobody will interrupt you and light some candles or incense to set the mood. Next, start getting yourself turned on by touching your thighs, caressing your stomach and breasts and any other areas where you find touching especially pleasurable. When you feel turned on and ready to begin masturbating, move on to the next step.
How to masturbate as a female?
The most basic female masturbation technique is to use your finger or hand to rub and massage your clit. Most women prefer this masturbation method and can orgasm from clitoral stimulation alone. There are many ways to rub your clit, for instance, you can move your fingers up and down along your labia and over your clit, you can rub it from left to right, use a pillow and grind on it and do pretty much anything else that you find pleasurable. Once you’ve explored the area outside of your vagina, you can try sliding your finger inside your vagina and learn how to masturbate that way. The key here is to make sure that your finger is adequately lubricated and to give yourself plenty of time and freedom to explore different areas of your vagina and finger movements to figure out what feels good for you.
If you want to shake things up and move on to more advanced masturbation techniques, you can try using a vibrator or a dildo instead of or in addition to your fingers to make your sensations more intense. There are plenty of different types, sizes and shapes of these sex toys available on the market and you can choose them depending on what spots you want to stimulate.
How to give yourself an orgasm as a female?
There’s one trap that many women who are just learning to masturbate often fall into - it is the pressure to actually achieve an orgasm. This can not only make you feel stressed but can also make it difficult to orgasm. Instead, try to focus on just enjoying the sensations you’re giving yourself. That being said, once you discover what feels best for you when you’re masturbating, it won’t be too difficult for you to reach an orgasm.