Do guys enjoy facesitting?
If you want to try sitting on your man’s face but are not sure that he’ll like it, rest assured - facesitting is one of the most popular fantasies for men and it’s one of the most-watched porn categories, so chances are that your man will absolutely love it if you ride his face.
In fact, many women want to try facesitting but don’t even discuss it with their men because they don’t want to come off as selfish or weird. But keep in mind, while sex should be pleasurable for both partners, most people enjoy giving pleasure to their lover even if they are not getting anything in return, provided that it doesn’t happen every time.
Does sitting on someone’s face feel good?
If you enjoy oral sex then sitting on a guy’s face will probably feel amazing. First of all, he’ll be performing oral sex on you and you won’t be distracted by anything unlike, for instance when you’re doing the 69 position. Plus, riding a man’s face can help you feel empowered and in control, which is a turn-on for many women.
How to ride someone’s face?
As far as technique goes, sitting on a guy’s face is incredibly easy! All you need to do is have him lie down on a bed and then get into a position where you’re standing on your knees above your man’s head with your ankles on both sides of his head. Next, lower yourself down until your vulva and clit touch your guy’s lips and tongue and simply enjoy his performance! You can also grind on his face for additional stimulation and hold on to the headboard to make your position more stable.
Other facesitting positions
You can vary the classic facesitting position according to your preferences to find the most comfortable position for you and your guy. For instance, if kneeling gets too difficult for you, you can try placing more of your weight on him by straddling his face with your thighs on both sides of his head. You can also squat over his mouth and lips if you like. If you want to jerk off your guy while sitting on his face, sit down so that you’re facing toward his body and not away from it. For an additional kick of dominance, wrap your legs underneath your guy’s head, pressing his head into your vulva and clit.
While facesitting can feel amazing for both you and your guy, your legs might get tired pretty quickly or your man might need to catch his breath or get some rest for his tongue and mouth. Since the man probably won’t be able to talk when you’re sitting on his face, ask him to tap you on your leg if he needs a break.
You should also keep in mind that even if you try facesitting, it doesn’t mean that you absolutely have to cum while doing it. You can simply do it for a little while and then switch to your regular oral sex position to finish or move on to sex. If you do stick with facesitting but have trouble orgasming from your man’s oral stimulation alone, you can ask him to finger you while you’re sitting on his face or you can also use a vibrator on your clit as he’s playing with your vulva to help you climax easier.