Your clit is one of the most sensitive parts of your body and if you learn how to play with your clit the right way, you can achieve incredible orgasms both with a partner when having sex or when you’re masturbating alone.
Start your clitoris massage slowly
If you’ve set aside plenty of time to play with yourself, it’s a good idea to start slow with your clit massage. Don’t touch your clit right away. Instead, start by massaging and rubbing the area around it, the clitoral hood and the side of your clit with one finger. When you are craving for more, you can bring your finger closer to your clit or increase the amount of pressure you’re applying.
Masturbate your clit using more than one finger
A lot of women only use one finger to play with their clit but it can be very pleasurable if you use several fingers, as you’ll get a new boost of sensations with every finger that runs over your clit. You can try moving your fingers up and down, side to side or in circles around your clit.
Rubbing the clit during sex
Penetration is the key part of sex, of course, but your sex with you man can be made a lot better if you add some clit stimulation to it. Rubbing your clit is not only the perfect way to improve the sensations you get from sex, but it’s also one of the easiest ways to bring you to orgasm while having sex.
If you’re going to ask your man to rub your clit during sex, make sure to talk to him beforehand and continue communicating while you’re having sex. It’s important that you let him know what exactly feels good for you so that he can focus on bringing you the most pleasure instead of blindly searching in the dark.
Clitoral massage during sex
One of the best ways to stimulate the clit is to use the Grind technique, where your man presses his body against your clit and grinds against it as he thrusts his penis in and out of you. You can do the Grind technique in virtually any position. For instance, if you’re having sex in the missionary position, your guy just needs to press his pubic bone against your clit and keep thrusting. Alternatively, he can grind side to side or in circular motions while keeping his penis inserted inside of you as deep as possible.
Another incredibly effective clit massage technique that you can use during sex is called the Vulcan. This technique works best when the woman is on top of the man. Your partner simply needs to place the palm of his hand at the bottom of his stomach and spread his fingers to make a V-shape. He should then place his palm just above his penis with two fingers on each side of it. This way when you grind on his dick, your clit will rub on his hard knuckles, sending you to heaven.