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BDSM punishment ideas for submissives

BDSM punishment ideas for submissives
Many couples why like to add a little kink to their sex lives enjoy incorporating some BDSM elements in their lives as well. This often includes training, discipline and, of course, punishment. BDSM punishments are a great tool that dominants can use to train their submissives but if you’re running out of ideas for punishments for your submissive, we're here to help.

How to choose the right BDSM punishment for your submissive?

Whenever you decide to punish your sub, you should always make sure that the punishment is more or less equal to your sub’s ‘crime’ in severity. You should never punish your sub when you’re angry, as you could decide on a punishment that’s too severe, which can hurt your sub or your relationship with him or her. Instead, try to calm down before deciding on a punishment and always choose one that hurts your sub the least. It is also your job as a dominant to make sure that whatever punishment you choose for your sub, it is safe to perform in general, your sub is actually capable of completing the task and that it doesn’t push any of your sub’s hard limits.

BDSM punishment ideas

BDSM punishments can take on many forms. One of the most popular types of BDSM punishments is physical punishments that involve pain - this can be caning, paddling, spanking and other similar actions. You can also have your sub count out the number of hits her or she has taken out loud. Alternatively, you can use bondage as a form of punishment - you can tie up your sub and have him or her stay tied up for a given amount of time, try to perform tasks while being tied up or stay in place without moving. You can also have your sub stay in a certain position for a lengthy period of time without tying them up - for instance, have your sub kneel in a corner until they’ve learned their lesson. Some other creative BDSM punishments include orgasm control using chastity belts or by simply forbidding your sub to touch themselves or orgasm. You can also take away something a sub likes to eat, use or do, such as watching TV or playing a video game. Another form of punishment is to have your sub do something he or she really hates to do like a chore around the house or you can simply come up with a boring and pointless task for your sub to do. For more kinky ideas, you can punish your sub in public, shame him or her in front of other people or even have them masturbate in front of others as a form of punishment, just make sure you don’t do anything illegal.