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BDSM community

BDSM community
If you’ve been getting into BDSM lately and became interested in joining a BDSM community, you might not know where to begin. Do you go online, search for a local BDSM club or come up with a different way to find like-minded BDSM enthusiasts? Luckily, we’ve prepared this article to tell you all about BDSM communities and how you can join one.

Manage your expectations of the BDSM community

A lot of people who want to join a BDSM community often either don’t know what to expect or have really extreme and unrealistic expectations. Before you go searching for a BDSM club, remind yourself that first of all, it’s a group of real people who differ from each other greatly - you will meet lots of great people but there’s always a chance of stumbling upon a bad seed. And secondly, remember that consent is extremely important in the BDSM community and you should always take it seriously.

Where to find a BDSM community?

Now that you’re ready to join a BDSM group, where do you find one? The best place to start is online - there are many forums and websites dedicated to BDSM and they can be the perfect place to start for a beginner BDSM enthusiast. It’s best to choose reputable websites like The Cage, which have moderators and a system of anonymity to protect the members. At the same time, searching for a BDSM community on Facebook is a terrible idea because you can accidentally out your interest in BDSM in front of all your Facebook friends. You can also search for local BDSM events online but make sure that they are legit before going.

What to do at local BDSM events?

There are different types of BDSM events that you can attend - there are classes, meetups, munches and more. There are a few rules you should keep in mind when attending these events. First of all, wear what you’d wear in normal life and not your BDSM attire. Secondly, keep whatever happens at these events a secret - you don’t want to accidentally ‘out’ someone you’ve met at a BDSM event if you accidentally meet them later at a restaurant and mention it. You should also never touch anyone or anything belonging to another person at any BDSM event unless they specifically say it’s okay to do so.

How should I behave at BDSM events?

If you’re a newbie to the world of BDSM, you might not know what to do or how to behave at first. Don’t worry, every member of the BDSM world has been where you are now. The best advice we can give is to try to really become a part of the community and make friends instead of just looking for playmates. This way you can gain the trust of other members of your BDSM club and get access to a lot more opportunities.

Frequently asked questions about BDSM events and the BDSM community

Are there any large-scale BDSM events?

There’s a huge number of large-scale BDSM events that attract thousands of people from different states, so you can always find a community.

Are large BDSM conferences worth attending?

While going to a large-scale BDSM event can be quite expensive if it’s far away from your home and you have to fly there, they can be a great place to meet new people and improve your skills and knowledge in the field of BDSM, especially if you live in an area where there aren’t many BDSM events.

What happens at BDSM events?

The agenda of any BDSM event depends largely on the type and scale of the event. It can be a simple bondage class, a meetup where people can find potential new playmates or even a public play event at a dungeon.